Happy New Year!
How to Have a
Happy New Year in Your Lutheran School:
Six Tips for Parents
1. Get to
know the teacher.
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Make a personal visit before classes begin or
welcome the teacher into your own home for a visit.
However you can manage it, make the meeting
face-to-face.
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Find out the best time to call the teacher if you have
questions. (Supper time and late nights are not good
times.)
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Ask what the teacher expects of students and how you can
help.
2. Help
the teacher get to know you.
Describe your
family situation, and don’t skip the "hard parts" about
difficulties that may affect your child’s performance or
well-being.
Let the
teacher know the best time and way to contact you with
questions or concerns.
Tell the
teacher about others in your family, your work,
interests, and so forth. Volunteer to help in areas of
experience.
3. Get to
know the Lutheran school.
Ask the
principal and the teacher how the Lutheran school
differs from the public school. (This is especially
important if you’re new to a Lutheran school.)
Expect prayer
and worship. Lutheran schools normally build devotional
practices and chapel services into their school day.
Ask to meet
the pastor, if you don’t already know him. (He may be
just the right person to know, especially in times of
personal crisis.)
Know that
church and school normally work together. The school is
a ministry of the church. If you are not Lutheran, be
assured that most Lutheran congregations will welcome
your visit.
Understand
that attending a Lutheran school means more than just
having a period to study religion. Faith issues and
Scripture are normally integrated into the entire
curriculum.
Plan to
attend worship events in which your child will
participate as a student in a Lutheran school: These may
be special singing events for worship services,
Christmas worship presentations, and so forth.
Expect that
your child will be taught that Jesus Christ is his or
her personal Savior. This is a mission of Lutheran
schools across the nation and around the world.
4. ’Twas
the Night Before School …
Don’t wait until the night before school opens to talk with
your child about what to expect at school. Let them do some
talking too.
Old and new
friends
Classroom
rules
Getting to
school and getting picked up after school
Expectations
for success—and your belief in your child’s ability to
learn
Goals. Fears.
(Avoid threats. Don’t accept "I don’t know" as an
answer. Sharing something about your own school days may
help to initiate discussion.)
5. Provide
an effective learning environment.
Create a
routine. Invite your child’s interaction to agree upon a
regular time for study and other activities.
Set aside a
study space—a regular, comfortable, non-distractive
place for homework and study.
Read to your
child, with your child, or at the same time your child
is studying. Show your child that learning is important
to you too.
Allot
specific times for television, video games, and so
forth. Know what your child is watching or playing.
Check your
child’s work and offer help (without doing homework or
projects for your child). Be sure your child has all the
necessary supplies for working both at home and at
school.
6. Support
the teaching/learning effort.
Get both
sides of the story—your child’s and the teacher’s—before
you jump to conclusions. Listen between the lines.
Children’s complaints about one thing in school may
really reflect a problem other than what the child makes
obvious.
Go to the
teacher first when you perceive a problem. Never make
the principal’s office or a school board meeting your
first step in problem resolution.
Treat the
teacher with respect, both in person and when not in the
presence of the teacher. And watch your language.
Verbally abusing a teacher is no more acceptable than
verbally abusing anyone else—including children.
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