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In many marriages, procreation is a higher priority than
marital love and intimacy. Children are greatly valued and
not having children may be a cause of unhappiness.
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Husbands often take little responsibility for the care
of very young children and infants; however, when boys turn
four or five, fathers often assume a more active role.
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There is a direct relationship between the number of
children in a family (especially boys) and the amount of
prestige experienced by the father and his family. A large
family is a sign of prestige.
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School classes are often quite large and may have as
many as sixty students at the elementary level.
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Storytelling is very common in schools in the Middle
East.
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Some of the most important character traits for Middle
Easterners include generosity, bravery, friendship, and
hospitality.
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Some groups (e.g., Saudi Arabians) consider the left
hand to be unclean. It is to be used for lavatory purposes
only. Some people may be offended if the left hand is used
when greeting others.
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It is generally acceptable to speak loudly in
conversation. Observers may think that conversational
partners are angry because of the loudness level of the
communication.
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Usually it is considered discourteous to say no. Words
such as perhaps or maybe are often used in
place of the word no. Some families indicate
agreement with the recommendations of professionals because
the expression of disagreement is considered rude.
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Many professionals speak with the student’s mother
first. In some Middle Eastern families, the father is the
official liaison between the family and any
"strangers." Thus, professionals need to consult
with the father first.